Marriage and Threesomes . . . Are You For It Or Against It?

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When it comes to sex people are either very open or down right prudes, you have a few that are in between. For those that are in between I like to call them “closet freaks”. Those are the ones that need just a little liquid courage or a sexy mate and the boy/girl next door innocence is out the window. So my question is would you give your husband or wife a threesome? If he/she came to you saying that he/she has always fantasized about it and he/she really wants this would you grant them that wish? Now I have been married for seven years and this topic has probably came up about 20 times. I have to be honest, I’m not with it. I’m selfish and I don’t think I could personally handle watching my husband please another woman. I know the body language he gives when he is into something. So, seeing that happen with someone else, whether I’m apart of it or not, is just something that I cant get deal with. Some people believe it can bring spice and fire into a marriage. Others believe it can curb the need of your husband/wife seeking pleasure elsewhere without your knowledge. That all is true depending on your situation, but what about new desires that can come from this encounter? The desire to want more of that person in a more solo situation or a repeat of the same encounter. If there is already chemistry and intensity in the bedroom between a couple, adding another person will certainly increase that intensity. Would watching your partner reach his/her peak turn you on or off? At this point it isn’t about if you are a freak or not, it’s if you would grant that request to your partner or deny them their fantasy? Some would say this would be putting your marriage on the line in case it backfires. What do you think?

2 Comments

  1. Kiara Ladson

    May 29, 2016 at 6:54 am

    Guess I fall into the prude category. It’s a no for me I’m very selfish and possessive. Sharing my husband is off limits.

  2. Teel

    June 6, 2016 at 3:57 pm

    Threesome is a no go for me. It would open up a can of worms in more than one area. If it ain’t broke don’t fix it.

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